Dementia – let’s talk about it

Fifty five per cent of people who took part in a survey about attitudes to dementia say they wouldn’t be confident about telling the difference between the signs and symptoms of dementia and the normal signs of ageing.

The survey found that around nine in ten (87 per cent) agree that they would have a conversation with someone close to them who is struggling with their memory. 

However, some conversations may not be taking place if people aren’t aware of the range of dementia signs and symptoms.

Now, health professionals are urging people to have the conversation and to seek advice from their doctor if they are worried.

In the North West, only 43 per cent of people with dementia have received a formal diagnosis.

Margaret Irving, Area Manager for the Alzheimer’s Society in the North West, said: “Being aware of the signs and symptoms of dementia is the essential first step needed to seeking a diagnosis.

“Signs can include a range of changes in behaviour including finding it hard to follow conversations or programmes on TV, repeating things or having problems with thinking and reasoning.

“With an ageing population dementia is a real health concern and we must ensure that as many people as possible get advice from their doctor if they are worried about the signs.”

Professor Alistair Burns, National Clinical Director for Dementia, said: “It is so important that people recognise the signs of dementia and talk to loved ones if they are worried.

“Quite often people don’t know how to approach the conversation, and may put it off, waiting to find the right time or not wanting to think that their loved one may be showing the signs of dementia.

“It is crucial that people do talk about their concerns as early as possible and don’t wait until a crisis situation forces them into it.

“The sooner someone is diagnosed with dementia the sooner they can access the treatment and support to help them live well with the condition."

Tips on having a conversation with a loved one if you are worried:

• Choose a time when you are both relaxed and open to a frank conversation
• Make sure you have the chat in a comfortable place where you can talk openly and where there are no other distractions
• Use specific examples of things you are concerned about to help your loved one understand your worries
• You might want to think about how you start the conversation in advance, phrases such as 'Have you noticed that lately you have been xxxx' might help you to start the conversation
• Keep calm and if the person isn't receptive to what you are saying suggest you talk about it again the next time you see them/speak with them
• Explain you are bringing the topic up because you think there could be a medical explanation and that it could be something that is treated and managed
• Encourage them to visit their GP for further advice